19-year-old expected to preoccupy his 2-year-old niece while his older sister ‘takes a mom break,’ gets berated after leaving toddler unattended, despite explicitly sharing he had other plans: ‘She was ignoring me, so I just left'

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  • Jungle !
  • I 'abandoned' my niece after my sister wouldn't come and get her FAFO When My (19m) sister (26) still lived at home a while ago she likes to do this thing where she asks
  • you to watch her daughter for "2 minutes" while she runs to the bathroom, so she goes and then time keeps ticking away and 2 minutes turns into 15 minutes and she still isn't back. And you
  • wonder what's taking her so long so you go and bang on the door and then she finally comes out 20 minutes after she left. So basically she just uses it as an excuse when she's fed up of being with her kid
  • I knew what she's doing when she asks for this so I always say no, but she asked me this time and I said yeah because I wasn't doing anything anyway, but I did have to leave in 10-15 minutes and I told
  • her that and she said she wouldn't be that long. I took for her word for it and just went and amused her daughter (2) for the time being. It was getting closer to the time I had to leave at and she still wasn't
  • out so I messaged her and she said she would be 1 minute. A minute passed and she still wasn't out so I went up to the door and told her I had to go and I got no response, presumably because she was wearing NC headphones,
  • either that or she was ignoring me lol. didn't hav time to wait so I went back and told my niece to go and get her mom and I just left, and I could hear her crying and running after me as I was walking out the door.
  • When I got back my sister was ped and asked what was wrong with me and why would I just "abandon" her while she was crying like that and I just said I had to go and I did tell her I had to be gone by a certain time. I felt a bit bad but at the same time she's not my child..
  • Silver6Rules . Her child, her problem. If she keeps lying about how long she'll be gone, how can she expect anyone to want to do her any favors? What projection. You didn't abandon her child, SHE did.
  • Dreamybook1357. Not your responsibility. I get she needs breaks but taking advantage of people ain't how it's done.
  • No_Philosopher_1870 Your sister taught you that you can't rely on her to keep her word about how long she wants you to watch her child. That's going to make it hard for her to
  • be granted favors in the future, particularly if the word gets out that she understates what she wants or needs, hoping that you or others will tolerate her nonsense.
  • mcindy28 You literally did nothing wrong. That child wasn't abandoned because the parent was there the whole time! Let this be the last favour.

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